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Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Coming July 31st from Lynsay Sands

Avon Books
July 31, 2012
ISBN-10: 0062078070
ISBN-13: 978-0062078070



Jeanne Louise has been so wrapped up in her work trying to find a solution to Victor and Vincent's genetic anomaly which forces them to feed directly from mortals that she didn't notice anything amiss until she was already slumping over her steering wheel. She does notice upon waking up that she is now chained to a strange bed in a strange room in a strange house… always a great start to a relationship which is exactly what she thinks when she realizes she can’t read her abductor, who happens to be a fellow science geek that also works for Argeneau Enterprises. Add in the fact her potential mate has a six-year-old daughter and that he kidnapped an immortal (a big ‘No No’ in the immortal world), it makes this whole ‘life mate’ business a lot messier and could lead to a world of hurt for them both. Why can't this life mate business ever be simple?

Author's Comment:

This is a different twist in the Argeneau series. There's a whole new dilemma that the Argeneaus have to deal with now. Good luck Jeanne Louise!


Wednesday, July 04, 2012

Fifty Shades of Dark Realities

Despite the title of this post, I’m not necessarily discussing Fifty Shades of Grey, but in general terms romance novels as a whole, and this “type” in particular. We’ve all heard about these novels, it’s impossible not to be bombarded with some form of awareness of this specific set of books at this moment in time. While many, many millions of readers, male and female, adore the books and proclaim them wonderful, the reality is, there’s an insidious and darker aspect to the story E.L. James has told here. I think we’ve forgotten some of the more obvious negatives represented in this narrative given from the perspective of an innocent and virginal young woman just graduating from university.

Romance heroes are as a rule larger than life men, mostly strong, independent, alpha males who are often arrogant and enigmatic. While this is meant to be alluring, in the real world, it’s just as often a source of frustration for women who deal with this kind of man daily. I like this kind of romance hero myself, they’re my stock in trade. I also enjoyed aspects of Fifty Shades of Grey–but there are also aspects of it that are somewhat frightening, too. Let’s take the “hero” of this story, Christian Grey. He’s a megalomaniac, a control freak of amazing proportions, and he likes to practise a less-than-reality-based BDSM lifestyle. Oh, and at the tender age of 28, he’s richer than god and inspires fear in businessmen twice his age. To offset this apparently “privileged” life we learn that his childhood was less than blessed, he was beaten and abused by “the crack whore” who was his mother, and in his teen years, his adoptive mother’s friend stepped in and began a Dom/s relationship with him before he was even of legal age.

Anastasia Steele is presented as the “all-American girl” who catches the eye of Mr. Grey. She's impossibly naïve, to the point of annoyingly stupid at times, and while we are told often of her strength, she exhibits precious little of it throughout the tale. She is, in fact, the kind of “heroine” that some editors refer to as TSTL–Too Stupid To Live. When she’s not falling on her ass clumsy, she’s chatting with her Inner Goddess or the voice of her conscience, neither of which shows any real sense. She swoons over Christian, she moons over Christian, she attempts to say no to Christian… All of this we’re told makes her more appealing to him.

Ok, story aside, let’s look at a few points that go unspoken in all this. Fifty Shades of Grey and books like it, those that present an unrealistic and romanticized view of unbalanced relationships, are influencing the perceptions of romance for an entire generation just waking up to their sexuality, both men and women. Hell, older men and women well-versed in relationship interactions are being influenced by these books. We’ve all heard about how they’re saving marriages and all that, which is great if it’s helping you open up to your partner about the intimate aspects of your relationship. BUT, why aren’t we hearing about the other side of all this? Because it’s ugly, and it spoils the fantasy that’s being sold to us all. How many people have bought the “toys” with no real understanding of their use? How many men have hurt their partners with whips, floggers, plugs, anal beads, and all the other trappings of BDSM? Instruments that give pleasure in the right hands, be it laced with pain or not, but in the hands of the inexperienced and uninitiated can cause real injuries. How many women have asked their mates to tie them up, or spank them, or cuff them, only to be left feeling utterly used and terrified by the resulting experience? How can any of this be perceived as romantic or loving?

How many women, realistically, want to be told what to wear, who they can see, where they can work, when to eat, when to exercise, etc.? The enlightened, average woman calls that emotional and psychological abuse when her girlfriend tells her she’s met a guy who does this to her, doesn’t she? At what point in time did all that’s been fought for in recent decades with regard to women’s rights become disposable? Is this really romantic? Most of us if faced with this in our real lives would tell the guy to bugger off and find himself a doormat to walk over. But, if you’re young, inexperienced, and impressionable–which is a state we all, men and women, go through as we grow into our adulthood–and this, you’re told by books and movies, is an expression of love, not an abuse of your trust and love, are you so quick to tell your Prince Charming to take a hike? Unlikely. Therein lies a problem. The vulnerable have just become even more vulnerable to those who see this as an opportunity to take advantage, to get what they need or want, and do it in the guise of romance and love.

There is a huge difference between a dominant male and a domineering one, but the distinction comes with life-experience to a large degree. And, how many “bullies” will pass off their aggressive tendencies as their Dom side, especially to those who haven’t a clue about the fine-lines? Are we encouraging weaker women to allow men like this to take control of their lives? It can happen easily enough. Maybe for some, they don’t want to be responsible for the choices that make them unhappy, so allowing a “Dom” to take over removes that burden for them. Who knows? The true nature of BDSM, or indeed, Dom/s is that in its truest lifestyle form, it is a loving partnership based on incredible trust. With the watered down and irresponsible presentation given in Fifty Shades, it’s a young woman being taught that what she wants is what Christian wants. A virgin heroine no less, and she’s not even had the pleasure of bringing herself to orgasm when she meets Mr. Grey and he begins to teach her his version of passion and sensuality. He freaks out on a regular basis, stalks her, terrorizes her on emotional levels at times, and yet she is drawn and calls this love.

I think as an industry, romance leads the way for fantasizing love and sex, making it larger than life, and for some, an unattainable dream. We’re teaching people, old and young, to want impossible things from the partners we choose. People NEED to talk and communicate, that more than anything else is what defines an honest and real relationship between people. Strip away the money and the glamour, and what would most of us see in Christian Grey? A man who uses women to soothe his anger and satisfy his sexual needs. Sure, he’s “fifty shades of fucked up” and that appeals to the need most women have to save and nurture, but how many women want to have their asses spanked and to be treated like children because their husband/boyfriend gets pissed off over some perceived transgression–like going for a drink with your best friend. Again, we’re sending some very negative and dangerous signals to young women if this is the way “romance” and “love” are being marketed by the industry.

And what are we teaching the young men of our society? That if you push hard enough, you can be a “Dom” personality? Dominant personalities are natural, they’re not bullies dressed up in Dom trappings. Money doesn’t buy submission, and if it does, you’re not a Dom, you’re an abusive bastard who’s using fear to manipulate others into giving you what you want. Young women who are insecure and unsure, they’re potential victims for this kind of abuse. Don’t kid yourself, either, unless this kind of relationship is mutually sought, it is a prime source of mental and emotional abuse. Most loving couples don’t really need to dominate, stalk, or control their partners to the point of obsession. Obsession is unhealthy, and not romantic. Time to balance the perceptions, at least in my opinion.


Sunday, July 01, 2012

Fan Fiction and Copyright

This is a tricky subject and one a lot of people DO wonder about, whether they write, or simply read works based on the property of others. Fan fiction has been a training ground for many, many authors over the years, and while it does in real ways violate existing copyright, most publishers, authors, and film companies have long ago stopped exerting energy trying to prevent the use of their property in this fashion. With the advent of the internet, the task would be monumental and never-ending, and would never be successful anyway.

I wrote fan fiction for twenty years, it taught me to hone a story-telling skill, find a voice, and ultimately how to craft a story people want to read. A couple of years ago I was introduced to another form of fan fiction–the world of role-play writing. Some of this writing involves created original characters, but MUCH of it is based on the work of authors and film writers. Authors hold copyright to work, along with their publishers, that’s a straight-forward concept anyone can understand. But copyright is a flexible interpretation to some, and it can be argued that what another writer creates based on the work of someone else still belongs to the person who created the new work. It’s my understanding that original content IS copyrighted to the writer who does in fact write it. Realistically if your “source” characters (someone else’s creations) can be changed to “Jack and Jill” and still work–it’s unlikely you’ve violated anyone’s copyright, and you have in fact created something that is uniquely yours.

What happens if the work is written by two people, though? Does either of them have the right to summarily change the work of the other? I have no idea, but common sense is telling me that if you recycle, repost, or have a third party re-write the work of the original author, WITHOUT their permission, then you are violating their rights. (I’d love to know if that’s a correct assumption, simply as a curiosity, so if we have a lawyer reading, please let us know!)

Recently I was asked for the second time if a novel of mine could be role-played on Facebook. The first time I was approached, I thought it would be amazing and fun. In the end, I changed my mind. In the year and a half since then, I’ve grown to understand why many authors are uncomfortable with the concept of role-play, fan fictions, and any unauthorized use of their work. The second request came only a couple of weeks ago, and it was a different novel than the one I was first asked about, but the answer is the same–an appreciative but firm no. If they choose to do it anyway, they do it without author sanction. I respect the fact that there are many talented people who like to tell stories, and have no desire to pursue a writing career, they simply want to share with like-minded fans. I think for me what has changed my mind so radically about so much of this is the simple fact that too many people view it as their right, and that is where you really DO violate an author/creator’s legally held rights. When you choose to “interpret” or “represent” a fictional character that belongs to someone else, you become an ambassador of sorts for that author and character. That is a responsibility, and one too many people forget when they get caught up in their make-believe.

At the end of the day, if you violate too many rights, and show flagrant disrespect for the creations of others, you will probably find yourself facing legal troubles. When in doubt, ask, that simple. Most authors are approachable and reasonable. When you change partners to write fan fiction or role-play, don’t recycle what you did with an earlier partner, because that is a blatant violation of rights unless they tell you it’s okay to have your new partner rewrite the stories you own with them. And, perhaps the most important rule of all is to always remember that whether you’re “playing a role” or writing a fan fiction, you represent other people’s work to the readers you’re courting. Behave in a way that does not do your source a disservice, because that source still has the right to sue your ass if he/she chooses to.

If you’d like to know more about ©Copyrights, check out this very informative and useful article: http://asidefromwriting.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/writing-101-copyright/

And, in case you wondered, yes, everything on this blog is copyrighted and registered with identification numbers, just like ALL my work, and that includes fan fictions, role-play writing, and my professional works.


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